Hello,
I’m your new
Dating Coach
My name is Irini,
I am a feminist
and I am a Dating Coach
The rules of dating have changed, and both men and women are trying to adapt to the new reality. Social media, dating apps, ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships, and the MeToo movement, it’s all part of a new era.
Men struggle because they haven’t fully understood the female experience and they haven’t recognized what was wrong in the past. But old behaviors no longer apply. Relationships aren’t what they used to be in the past.
Women, on the other hand, have gone through difficult and painful realizations over the past decade. They have gained awareness of what a romantic relationship can bring to their lives, and for the first time in history, it’s no longer just about survival or financial security. They can handle those on their own.
So now, they want and ask for more. They want things that, unfortunately, no one has taught men how to give. True and meaningful connection, emotional availability, tenderness, closeness, teamwork and vulnerability.
If you’re a man, as your dating coach, I’ll help you see what you’re doing wrong and challenge you to re-think the way you think and behave, so you can be “who women want” (it’s the title of my book). No games, no superficial self-improvement, no tricks from dark psychology. Leave the wolves alone and don’t listen to pseudoscientific theories from men who claim to know the “game”. Listen to a woman who wants you to do better, because that’s the only way we’ll all succeed together.
If you’re a woman or a man who identifies as a feminist, I can help you grow in other areas, and face obstacles that hold you back. More details about my coaching here.
My goal is to unite different fields and modalities in dating coaching: a feminist approach, behavioral communication tools, relational theory and trauma awareness, in order to bring together men and women who belong to the new era.
Download
my Consent Guide
here
Coaching for Women
If you're a woman who's exhausted by dating apps and the available men out there, coaching with me can help you put things intoperspective and approach dating consciously, without wasting your time.
Reasons to Work with Me:
If you want to understand why some of your past relationships didn’t work out, what it really means when someone is “your type, “what your behavioral patterns have to say about you, and what role you’ve played in your relationships so far.
If you want better treatment from men but haven’t yet figured out which traits truly matter, what red flags to look out for and what to expect when you first meet someone new.
If you’re stuck in a situationship, hoping the dynamic will change and turn into a “real” relationship, or if you’re unsure how much longer it’s worth investing and waiting for someone to choose you.
If you want to create the perfect dating app profile that sends the right message and learn how to handle unwanted male attention, filter through potential matches and navigate dating apps and social media effectively.
If you need clarity about a new relationship or connections, want to decode mixed signals, texts and confusing behavior, set an action plan and make informed decisions.
If you’re in a relationship that you suspect might be abusive and need a non-judgmental but honest perspective or if you’ve experienced relationships that you now recognize as abusive and want clarity and closure. (For severe cases, I may refer you to a therapist.)
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Meet the Coach
Many men believe that feminists hate men. That is a lie. Feminism is on men’s side too because patriarchy harms men as well. The demands of stereotypical masculinity—the behaviors required to prove they are “man enough”—make them lose parts of their humanity. They are not allowed to show weakness or negative emotions, except for anger. They are not allowed to feel sadness, pain, or dare say they need a hug—unless, of course, they want sex. Because they are supposedly “simple creatures.” Which is also a lie. Men are just as complex creatures as women.
Feminism wants to change all that. We don’t hate men. If I hated men, I wouldn’t have written a book to help them succeed with women, nor would I have studied coaching and counselling to help men become better dating candidates and, ultimately, better partners.
I don’t hate men. I hate the way too many men behave, too often. It’s not even that I think it’s men’s fault. What is to blame, is the way society raises men. You need to un-learn a lot of what you’ve been taking for granted, and realize what this new era demands of you as a (single) man. That’s why I am here. Because it’s very likely you feel lost and could use a guide.
For years, I used to write my own dating stories on social media. In 2016, I wrote my first piece on rape culture. It included personal accounts of sexual assault, all in the context of dating. It was written a year before #metoo went viral. In the following months, I was invited to do a TEDx talk, followed by interviews, articles and documentaries. I have received thousands of messages from women on social media, urging me to keep speaking up and thanking me for shedding light to subjects we don’t talk about enough. I decided to write all I’ve learnt in a book and ultimately start studying in order to devote myself to what I believe. Helping men become better than who society thinks they are.
Read my whole story here.
See my 2016 TEDx talk on rape culture:
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